That Village Girl Podcast | Women Empowerment
As a full-time SAHM of 2 who grew up without a mom and a passion for personal growth, Hellen Phaladi knows firsthand the challenge of balancing life’s demands while prioritizing your own needs. On That Village Girl Podcast, we dive into the reality that women often sacrifice themselves in the process of caring for others. But what if you could break free from self-sacrifice and build the confidence, financial independence, and courage to invest in YOUR dreams and build the life you actually deserve! Please rate the show to help us reach other women!
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Episodes

Mar 25, 2026
Mar 25, 2026
5 min
There's no manual on how to be a good mom. Most of us are learning from a lot of trial & and errors, but hard earned experiences give you the best lessons and I share them with you in this episode with hope that you'll learn from them. Share this with someone to help spread the message xx

Mar 22, 2026
Mar 22, 2026
11 min
We often confuse our personality with our identity and even think that its permanent, it's NOT! In this episode we dive deep into how that affects us and how you can change it. I hope you enjoy and please share this episode with someone you care about to help spread the message xx

Mar 18, 2026
Mar 18, 2026
12 min
Oftentimes people miss the fact that Confidence is a skill and if you want it to grow you must do the thing that you'd like to be confident about. Practising & getting better at it will bring confidence. Practice makes confident! I hope you enjoy this episode & be sure to share it with someone to help spread the message xx

Mar 15, 2026
Mar 15, 2026
8 min
In this brief episode, the host marks her 32nd birthday and shares a heartfelt message about gratitude, remembering the loss of her sister at 30 and the sustaining grace of God. She challenges listeners to pause, reflect on how far they’ve come, and appreciate the blessings already present in their lives.
She encourages a shift from constantly chasing the next thing to praying for the wisdom to value existing gifts—health, family, faith, and provision—closing with love, hope, and a reminder that you deserve the care you give others.

Mar 11, 2026
Mar 11, 2026
22 min
This episode explains the "mental load" mothers bear—the nonstop, invisible thinking, planning and anticipating that leaves many feeling exhausted despite outwardly keeping things together.The host describes how this background labor leads to high-functioning burnout and offers concrete steps: name the load, slow constant mental scanning, share responsibilities, and practice nervous-system resets.Listeners are introduced to a follow-through method and a practical workbook to help unload, reset, and prioritize self-care so they can better show up for themselves and their families.

Mar 8, 2026
Mar 8, 2026
13 min
They say being wise means learning from others' mistakes. These lessons will transform your life if you take them seriously. They're hard earned. I hope you enjoy it, and please share this episode with a loved one to help us spread the message xx

Mar 4, 2026
Mar 4, 2026
11 min
I've come to realise that in Motherhood, we always try our best to thrive with systems that were not built for us. And if if you ever want anything sustainable you've have to change the rules in a way that fully accommodates the demands in motherhood and in this episode I introduce a model that will help you thrive instead of burn out. I hope you enjoy & please share to help us spread the message xx

Mar 1, 2026
Mar 1, 2026
9 min
Oftentimes, when you struggle with being consistent, you think it's because you're lazy or not serious enough, but there's another reason that's sometimes overlooked, and in this episode, we discuss that reason in depth. I hope you enjoy and please share with someone you care about to help spread the message xx

Feb 25, 2026
Feb 25, 2026
14 min
When you've been in survival mode, your nervous system adapts. It's always scanning for the next need, and then you layer productivity on top of that. It's no wonder we are burnt out. In this episode, we talk about how productivity affects us mums & high performing women. Share with a friend.

Feb 22, 2026
Feb 22, 2026
18 min
In this episode the host, a stay-at-home mom of two, shares how she reclaimed time by waking up early, finding small "pockets" of uninterrupted minutes, and changing her mindset about what’s possible in motherhood.She explains practical strategies—closing open loops, avoiding multitasking, setting boundaries with her partner and children, using screens intentionally, and giving herself permission to quit tasks aloud—to create consistent time for self-care and creative work.Listen for encouragement and simple, actionable tips to help you find and protect moments of calm so you can be a gentler, more present parent.

